Self -education, family education, school education and social education

Why do you still have to educate yourself today?Because in the final analysis, the education of schools is collective education, and can only be aimed at most people, and it can only be the most basic thing.For example, if you are a master of history, if a person specializes in a special topic, it will be easy to become a talent, then the trouble will come. A wants to study the history of the Ming Dynasty.Finally, let’s go to the professor to the corpse?

Another problem of the school education system is the method of choosing allocation. If you want to enter high school and university, you must spend a lot of time and energy to read most of the subjects.For those who have outstanding and outstanding academic performance, it is not a good way, and it is not the only way. After all, not all professional work must have a college diploma.For example, if a person likes to draw, so you can’t learn to paint well without reading the Academy of Fine Arts and use it for life?Isn’t Han Han who can’t go to college more successful than most college students?Xu Xiang, a private equity brother who was caught not long ago, was also a high school student. He had not been in college, but how many university students’ ability and wealth made from him?

In addition, there are many people in all walks of life in this world, but their occupation is not a teacher. Even teachers can not encounter and give them instructions.But many such people have left books and articles, especially in the era of information centered on the Internet. When a person has the ability to educate himself, he can choose an excellent person as a teacher and learn from them.For example, NetEase’s open class can enable anyone to receive education of most basic courses in college.

Some people may think that the child is a blank piece of paper, and he is inculcation of him, and he is talking purely.This may be right when he was young, but as his child grew up, his self -awareness would wake up. He would realize that he was a unique life existence, and gradually moved towards independence and hoped to dominate himself.

According to the ancient legends, the soul is immortal after death, and it may be re -reborn (if you are interested, you can Baidu “regenerate people”).Even in terms of genetics, there are 23 pairs of chromosomes in human cells, and the possibility of a chromosomal combination of a couple’s children (23 squares 23) × (23 regions of 2) = 70,368,744,177,664 (70 trillion, the entire earth is only 7 billion), so although the child is born of a parent, it may be quite different from the parents, even completely different. When a child’s self -awareness awakens, he is the world’s unique in the world.A person.

Confucius has long said that it is necessary to teach according to the material. In theory, teaching according to the material is indeed the best way to cultivate talents, and it is said that everyone has the potential, but the problem is that since it is “potential”, then there is any potential for yourself.Not to mention others. Education does not find the secrets of student potential. Teaching based on theptics can only be a good vision.Besides, everyone is unique in the world. Now the division of labor in the human world is far from 36,000 lines. Therefore, when people complete a certain basic education (generally high school and university), individuals are based on themselves based on themselves based on themselves.The situation of the situation (interest, hobbies, wishes) determines its own learning and development direction. In the case of “teaching according to the aptitude”, it may be the closest to teaching this optimal education method closest.

However, before self -education, it is necessary to have a certain foundation. One is the basis for doing things. There is a correct world view and outlook on life. It can properly handle the relationship between yourself and others. This is the responsibility of family education.The cultural knowledge foundation is almost impossible to learn from the most basic things now. This is a problem in school education; the third is that they need to have quite ambitions and enthusiasm, and at the same timeHabits and perseverance, so that you can control yourself.Modern technology can stop people with cardiopulmonary stop extending their lives for a while, but they cannot force knowledge and thoughts into a person’s mind.

The hardest part of self -education is that no one is usually managed, no one comes to supervise, and no one is guided. Basically, everything depends on myself.Happy and relaxed things, and good joy is afraid of pain, it can be said to be human nature. In addition, in the era of mobile broadband interconnection today, there are countless ways to play, and it is easier to make people wipe out.Another harm of exam -oriented education is here. We preach the spirit of the so -called teacher’s candle in the primary and secondary school, the system desperately suppresss the teacher, and the teacher desperately suppresss the students. On the surface, with the continuous efforts of teachers and students, studentsThe mastery of “is firm, and the test results are far better than those of the same age in Western countries. However, the pressure of the university disappears. Can the monarchs observe how many college students can consciously study and study?Look at the young people around me, almost when they are playing with their mobile phones or tablets, I have almost read other books except the time to see the novel.

Here we also show the exquisite means of giving the people’s education at the elementary school stage. In the low grade of elementary school, we will give the super difficult teaching content beyond the degree of students’ development, as well as a lot of homework.Late accompanying students to complete a large number of homework methods, on the one hand, using non -human school education to squeeze important family education; on the other hand, seriously crack down on students’ confidence and enthusiasm for learning, so that students are suspected of not being suitable for reading; on the other handIt promotes children to study early and hate reading and studying, and the children who can learn are basically lost their imagination and creativity by relying on the death of the dead.When the child grows to the stage of self -education, he has long lost his motivation and enthusiasm.Therefore, when Chinese parents are happy to see teachers’ efforts to teach, give their children a lot of homework exercises, and feel that they have taken advantage of cheap and happy, children who should have been successful have been secretly destroyed by the talents.Lost.

Choosing friends also belongs to the category of self -education, because friends are completely voluntary choice. People are group animals, and the influence of the group on individuals is very obvious.EssenceThis is why some famous primary and secondary schools are so outrageous.Of course, if you want to change yourself, you should start from changing friends on the one hand.

In the process of growth and talent, self -education is essential and the most critical stage, and we have destroyed it. This is why we have cast so much time and energy money in education, but only we only have money, but only we only have money, but onlyThe reason why the craftsman cannot produce the master.However, I like Yile for fear of trouble and hard work is human nature, so it is doomed. No matter how hard we work, self -education is not suitable for most people, but the minority elites born here are the essence and hope of the entire nationEssence

2. Family (family education)

Where is the difference between parents and breeders?

Everyone grows up in the family, and the parents are the most trusted people in their children. Therefore, the influence of parents (mainly parents) on children’s growth is usually greater than all other factors.Westerners say that parents are the most important teachers.Parents ‘words and deeds have become children’s words and deeds. The parents’ worldview and life outlook will become the standard for children to treat others.It is established with a son.Although school education also has moral education content, people’s language thoughts and behavior habits need to be developed slowly for a long time, and there are basically no teachers and students in the process of school education for more than three years.Moreover, “if you don’t see it, you don’t know if you see it, you don’t know if you do it.” The teacher’s education for the child is “hearing (listening)”, and the parents’ education for children is “seeing”.

Moreover, not everything is suitable for teaching in schools, such as local dialects, folk activities, ethnic minority culture, martial arts qigong drama, etc. Chinese culture is not relying on the Confucius disciples for thousands of years, but through generations of generations, but through generations of generations, but through generations of generationsThe father and son were passed down.Today we emphasize school education too much and deliberately ignore family education. It is the system’s attempt to replace traditional culture and morality through the irrigation of teachers. You can see that with the traces of the low traditional culture of our age, everyone can decrease sharply.Human and morality and behavior are getting worse and worse.Now everyone has a lot of grand Western festivals. Instead, the traditional festivals are almost left to eat, drink, and holidays, because traditional culture is almost completely destroyed.At the end of the Song Dynasty and the beginning of the early Song Dynasty, the Mongolian cavalry killed the Han people in ten rooms and nine empty, and it failed to stop the inheritance of Chinese culture. Now it can basically stop the cultural heritage of 1.3 billion Chinese people. I have to say that this is a miracle.

Prior to the emergence of modern western civilization, China was the first of the world’s four major civilizations.Observation and learning, compared with the ancestors of the year, the Chinese on the mainland today are just a senior animal in front of foreigners.Why do most people in ancient China have higher morality and etiquette than today’s Chinese people?Because in the past, the whole society focused on the moral education of people, at that time, the moral education was not limited to a small number of private schools, but the result of the entire society, especially the clan and family education in each village. In moral education, parentsThe physical strength is the most important, and the impact is the greatest, not the teacher is useful.

People are information animals, and most people decide to act according to the information they get.If a group of primary school students put martial arts films every day, the phenomenon of fighting will increase; if they give them love movies every day, they may talk about love.A person continuously accepts various information during the growth of a person, and most of the effective information of a person comes from the family, because parents are the most authoritative source of information.

I found that students showed a clear phenomenon of “anti -turtle rabbit race”. In the fable “Turtle Rabbit Run”, the rabbit running fast is just the opposite of the person’s learning process.If a child with strong learning ability and weak learning ability is compared to turtle rabbit race, you will find that the rabbits are often rabbits, and those who sleep are often turtles;Turtle rabbits, rabbits are also running hard, and turtles are sleeping.From the perspective of information, it can be explained that the family of rabbits is often rabbits, and the turtle family is generally turtle.Parents are the most authoritative sources of information for children. The family has a great impact on people’s growth. No matter how talented children, they may not be able to hold a few breeders behind them.

Family education should be determined according to the growth process of the child, so the parents who hope to go to the school to buy a school district house or send their children to go abroad, it is better to understand the psychology of the child’s growth.By many issues and questions, as his most trusted parents can give the most authoritative and decisive help.Especially in the long -term coexistence with children, the child’s plastic is available, and in the final self -education stage, it provides guidance and help for children, and encourages.This is more helpful for children to finally become talents.

Generally speaking, children should learn to gradually control their temper at the parent’s teaching office before school, and learn the polite etiquette of the foundation.I think the best toys of young children are a small pile of sand and a few different players. Playing between children and children can learn the most basic people and ways to get along with

When children enter elementary school, they can guide children to read more extra -curricular books while admitting words, and develop the habit of reading and thinking about reading and thinking. Good habits are to slowly guide and cultivate.The education of Chinese people actually has an advantage that others cannot compare. A third -year elementary school student has a literacy of more than 2000. Basically, the reading of life is enough. If China has a good educational mechanism …

In addition, in the case of this system that failed to change, parents should understand the disadvantages of school education, and strive to help children reduce unnecessary unnecessary academic pressure and burden, and protect their children’s self -confidence and curiosity. Encourage after middle school encouragement after middle school.Children think more independently.

Parents are the most trusted person in the process of their children. Their role is not to counsel the “knowledge” in children’s school, but to supplement the school’s lack of traditional culture, and with their own life experience and perceptionTo guide children how to look at the problem, see others, see the world, tell the children that the world is great and wonderful, there are many ways to live, encourage him to have his own dream and work hard to realize his dream.

Of course, if you think that the above is too troublesome, it doesn’t matter. Just take more time to accompany your child. The money is incomplete. It is a good family education to accompany your child dinner every day. Children often be with their parents.I will feel safe, happy, and optimistic. I will learn to treat others under the teaching of my parents.Studies abroad have shown that the plasticity of children is huge. A child’s success does not necessarily need excellent parents, and qualified parents are enough.

3. School (school education)

The role of school education on talents should neither underestimate nor overestimate.

The role of modern school education is to make the development of natural people and society. The development level of human society has surpassed the scope where people can adapt to natural abilities.Basically, there is basically no place.

Modern school education plays an important role in people’s talents, but it is mainly to help people lay the foundation of knowledge and culture. It can be competent to present the general needs of work in society. Of course, the real success process also depends on the ultimate self -education.And with the desperate expansion of university over the past ten years, the number of people who have received college education are now very large. In fact, university education has become basic education, and the era of college graduation certificates will be used as a talent recruitment.EssenceThis is one of the reasons why many people find out that they have nothing to do with college.

School education also has a function. Children in the school are exposed to the basic knowledge of learning various subjects. They find their own interests and abilities, and choose their own direction of development.In addition, Han Yu has long clarified the role of teachers in education in “Teachers’ theory”, preaching, teaching, and confusion. The main tasks of teachers in the school are to teach students morality, teach knowledge and skills, and solve their doubts for students.Encourage students to think.

However, don’t think that teachers will teach students morality, and they think that they can push their children’s moral education responsibilities to teachers. The children’s morality and behavior actually mainly comes from parents.Children are not stupid. They will compare the teachers from their parents, and then “cleverly” choose what they can easily do … Looking at the society, although everyone has experienced school education, but soWhich of the criminals have not read books in school?

The worst thing is that our school education mechanism is distorted, not to cultivate talents, but to cultivate labor tools.

The difficulty and progress setting of the school’s curriculum should have been formulated based on the growth and development of people, especially in the elementary school stage. Because the students’ development is uneven, the degree of development of boys is slower than that of girls, so this stage is veryIt’s hard to learn a lot.The primary school course should be slow and slow, allowing children to learn easily, maintain the self -confidence and curiosity of students, and allow elementary school students to have more time to play with children of the same age. This is most beneficial to their physical and mental health.And growth.Wait until their physical and mental development in middle school has kept up, and then slowly add.However, our elementary school is just the opposite. It is difficult to enter the school as soon as you enter school. Using accelerated courses and a large number of homework forced children to do exhaustion, quickly lose interest in reading, and introduce many problems for primary school students to doubt themselves.Ability, think that you are not a material for reading.Our elementary school even develops to transfer parents to counsel their children every night to complete the perverts of homework, so that school education that has already been used to help abnormal school education and then out of important family education.

Middle schools are children’s shifts from teenagers to adults, from dependence to independence. At this stage, they should teach knowledge on the one hand. On the one hand, they guide students to learn independently, study themselves, discover their interests and specialties, and eventually go to the important period of self -education.At this time, we took the secondary entrance examination and college entrance examination as the only goal. Through repeated memories and exercises, we filled the students’ brains with the tactics of dead memories and the tactics of the sea, and destroyed their wisdom and ideas.labor.

Originally, such an unreasonable school education system also needed parents to understand and protect our children, and we deliberately publicized teachers as gardens, engineers, candles, and induced parents who were clever.Education responsibility completely push children’s education to schools and teachers.

If the education process is compared to long -distance running, then the long -distance runner must be running evenly. You must know how to regulate your physical strength, and we must not consume the strength at once, but we shouted.Indeed, now that our children have been urged on the starting line of education, it seems to be a significant lead, but they spend their efforts early and run slower. In the end, String Meteor Run to the End …

Fourth, social (social education)

The main function of society is not education at all, but the impact of the system of society on education is profound.

The influence of society’s success in people is reflected in two places. One is whether the information spread is free, and the propaganda of social media will affect the values and outlook on many people; the other is whether the competitive rules established by society are fair and transparent.In the final analysis, all the educational issues mentioned earlier are actually determined by the institutional issue of our society.

People are information animals. The more information spreading in society, the more distorted and false components. The smaller the room for people’s choice, the more rigid their minds, the more people cannot make better choices and stop.Conversely, the more open a society is, the more free and authenticity the information is.

In addition, selfishness is also the nature of human beings. If a person is willing to work hard, most of them must be pursued and want to return.Therefore, the more complete the competitive rules under a social system, the more transparent and fairness, the more it will make those who have the potential and willing to work hard, and their success will become the example of others, attracting more talents to be born, the entire entire, the wholeSociety has developed benign.Because the rules are fair and transparent, the successful scenery of the successful people, and the loser can be calm, which makes the entire society more harmonious and stable.

On the contrary, the more unfair and transparent in society, the rules on the bright side are deceiving. If you want to succeed, you have to take the hidden rules that everyone do not know.What a successful person gets people’s hatred and hate, while the loser is resentment and unwillingness.The whole society is full of anger, and people and people secretly hug.However, everyone is not stupid, and no one wants to learn and create well, and they will think about how to take it out.

Therefore, if China wants to realize the rejuvenation, it will inevitably establish a good education system, and the key to the education system is to establish an open and fair social system.

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